There are no rules when it comes to relationships, there is no guide book or manual that is going to give us happy relationships because we are each unique. We alone are responsible for learning how to relate to the people in our lives while we are not alone because we are all in the same predicament. We feel alone because we dare not communicate our difficulties in relating to each other, for fear of disapproval, ridicule or rejection. The media shows us the image of beauty an imaginary world where everything is perfect and everyone is happy. It has become more and more important to look right, have the right accessories and fit into the social scene.